@kingpins - I wish to shake hands with you - - it is amazing how much sadness and mourning affects one's health even though one tries to 'protest' that all is o.k., when people ask. It took me along time to get over my husband's demise, sometimes even wishing he had only 'divorced' me and was living happily somewhere - I did dream this a lot, actually. But can now laugh about the things he did and say - he was a very humorous man, with many practical jokes played on me and his children - just simple stuff, as men do, off the cuff, part of daily life - that's probably what I missed most for a long time. My daughter is taking a bit of getting used to, but I am making a valiant effort of Will and it seems to be working. Best wishes to you, keep trying, it gets better! Taurisk
- it is amazing how much sadness and mourning affects one's health even though one tries to 'protest' that all is o.k., when people ask. It took me along time to get over my husband's demise, sometimes even wishing he had only 'divorced' me and was living happily somewhere - I did dream this a lot, actually. But can now laugh about the things he did and say - he was a very humorous man, with many practical jokes played on me and his children - just simple stuff, as men do, off the cuff, part of daily life - that's probably what I missed most for a long time.
