I recall this was one of your pet beefs about women. What I haven’t yet worked out is why it bothers you so much. Usually when someone has an obsession with something there is sone form of personal matter sitting behind it.
i think you possibly judge women for what you forgive men. I think you believe that men are more likely to be good partners than women and that women are more likely to ge dishonest or “use” men
it puzzles me how you could form this view - and still complain when women want financial independence , to make their own choices about whether they want to partner with someone and to live their lives as men once did
you can’t really have it both ways. Alternatively men could just up their game
