I’m sorry but I responded to you giving me one example by giving you one back. It wasn’t about me and it was as valid as you giving one example. Unfair is always judged by the individual. Always in context. Always a perception. Whatever way you look at it.
the same situation can be experienced by two or more parties and they might all have a different view of whether it was fair
there is no objective test of what is fair.
So endlessly railing about it is pointless. You can think the other person is a nasty piece of work but it’s still your opinion
so it is you having the problem.
the way we manage ourselves if we feel something is unfair is to get on with life. Life our own life without reproach. Be kind. That’s it.
