This thread is for the most part is off topic in regards to the questions that ddzx has presented.
Also I'm not sure who anyone is talking to.
Linshan, the question presented, "love thy neighbour as thyself", and your reference Matt 28:19-20. to me, these are two different concepts.
Love is the distinguishing mark of Christ's followers. See John 13:34-35. Jesus says to love one another, by this everyone will know that you are my disciples....... In showing love, this doesn't automatically mean that you are trying to disciple or convert someone.
It does not say love thy neighbour by converting and making disciples of thy neighbour. Love thy neighbour is just that. You should love thy neighbour.
Debono, just for you, I will end by quoting a non biblical reference.
"The most valuable asset is not a head full of knowledge. But a heart full of love, with an ear ready to listen and a hand willing to help" unknown author
