because I had it before the relationship started. It’s a long story and makes no good reading. Picking a bad boy isn’t as easy as you think when you’ve been socialised to be a good girl
it’s not about sharing - I didn’t have a problem with that but it’s one thing to say we and another entirely to try to pretend to tte rest of the world that you are the grand man. Did I know how bad - no not until later
do I think your views matter. No
the difference between you and bender is that while you both think you are good guys he positions himself as a feminist and you simply try to tell me how cruel women are.
both genders can be cruel but whatever you or anyone else might think I am not
