Homophobic - is that the best you can come up with? Does that give you some empowerment to ridicule anyone that fits that description? You guys (and gals) love labelling. Australians being homophobic would a blanket ban on homosexuals everywhere; the pubs, the schools, hospitals, the work place. But that is not the case, and most of us go on with our jobs and accept others with and without their flaws or whatever needs they have.
You are excluded from marriage in as much the same way as others are excluded. Your hatred to those who oppose your needs is a little overbearing to say the least. Try some camomile tea, smoke a little more weed, just chill out. Besides, the way we're going, there won't be any humans remaining on earth to marry.