I dated a young women many many years ago and she had an older sister, the older sister was married to a great guy who was hard working and was a great family guy, they had a little boy and when he turned 5 the older sister demanded a divorce.
I couldnt understand the reason for the divorce and felt the need to ask because i was just lost for an answer and thought maybe beind closed doors the marriage had some serious problems.
I asked the question to the older sister and this was hr response, she simply got a divorce because she simply dint need a man i her life, when i listened to this pathetic women justify her divorce it mad me sick inside mainly because of the little boy that was now growing up in a broken family eating fast food and mostly without his dad simply because his mothers selfish atittude, she went on to say how she got everything discounted because of her single mother status, between that and her child support(which i call mother support) she had a great life...
Its cows lik this that ruin the system for those single mothers that actually do need help and those single mums that were forced to leave a marriage from domestic abuse/alcohol abuse etc etc
There's plenty of good single mums out there that need assitance but ive seen an met far to many that use it as a life style pension, a very small percentage of money from child support from fathers or the government goes to the kids, rather the money is spent on needs for the mother, i feel sorry for those single parents that really do need legitimate help and are really having a go at trying to make it..Single fathers.....LOL who the hell are they, single fathers in our society dont even get a mention and are the most abused by a long shot, i know because for a short time i was one of them.
