the science of lust (full documentary) , page-3

"I do not know of a sound that captivates the mind of woman as that of man. The sound of a man indeed captivates the mind of a woman."

well that depends what the sound is.

belching, farting and snoring, the sound of pee hitting the toilet seat?

and how about some words from king sol-o-mon?
"An argumentative wife is like a constantly dripping tap."

male/female all fall to bits when one gains some comprehension of unity, or non-duality

male/female is an illusion that we choose to perpetuate.
mind is not male or female, although it can create the illusion of both.
it is one's choice to identify with being a male or female or both or neither or neither male nor female nor both nor neither.

from my experience and observations i would say (loosely put) that usually beings (becommings) are born into the body form that they are attached to - but not always.

the mental qualities, for better or worse, are not unique to any particular physical form