the science of lust (full documentary) , page-4

as this is realised, accordingly, lust loses it's grip, and suffering diminishes

the power of compassion will then be realised and the superficial and shakey power of lust will be transcended, and we will start to treat others as we would treat outselves, because we all arise out of the same stuff, and will see that we can not harm onother without harming ourself.

it's like a CPU that thinks it will gain some pleasure out of destroying the RAM