dying does not mean non existance. death is an ACT not a state.
i do not profess (nor ever have), to have all the answers as some demand. however i draw your attention to 1 John 2:22-23
22 Who is a liar but he that denieth that Jesus is the Christ? He is antichrist, that denieth the Father and the Son.
23 Whosoever denieth the Son, the same hath not the Father: he that acknowledgeth the Son hath the Father also.
if you dont hold to the belief in the trinity then nothing i say will convince you. you actually need the third person of the trinity to convict you - the holy spirit