Top post Chrysalis,especially your closing statement.
"No one is right and no one is wrong, especially when it comes to spirituality. Each finds the path that takes them towards experience of the ineffable joy."
In my understanding,personal spirituality is very private and unique to each individual. It is useless trying to recruit,cajole, woo,browbeat or bully a person to your own understanding. The best we can hope for is to be a power of example, and encourage a seeker to persist with whatever is a path for them.ie cultivate,but not command.