dott, because we need rules to keep things in order. We're also controlled by some internet laws.
For example, we don't want strong profanity on the site, our choice, so I changed the picture before posting it. I don't mind swearing at all, but there's a time and a place.
I agree the girl was a total idiot, deserved to lose her job for being so damned stupid, and not thinking. She chose the wrong time and place! However, I also can see that in the 'right' small group of friends, it would have just been a funny comment. The thing is learning when and where you can say things.
That's just imo. I don't profess to be right about everything, but am entitled to my opinion. I do get surprised by some people who just believe they are always right, and won't look at two sides of a story, and don't have the ability to flex.
There's another quote about closed minds, but I can't think of it off the top of my head! Not having a go at anyone, 'just sayin' my own piece.