jesus loves you, page-980

if you are jealous can there be love? no, jealousy precludes the possibility of love. one can perform all kinds of mental gymnastics to create a relationship between the two but there is none. emptiness creates the space for love to flourish. like all one can do is be aware of what stops love from being. if you are full of anger, greed, envy etc. then that is who you are. your mind tells you you are more than that but you are how you feel. so all these emotions lock you in time whereas love does not exist in time. love cannot be owned or controlled. it's from this perspective one can see the essence of domestic violence; to own and control. in another sense you don't exist when you love. a further point is people believe that hate is the opposite of love. this is nonsense because

hate exists in time[the memory of emotional hurt] whereas there is no time in love