re: alan p.
Yo, Alan, I can see that the incident upset you. I am not Snookers wet nurse, on the contrary we argue like cats & dogs, his last description of me was an "anti-Semitic piece of cr*p!" I have now given up trying to convince him otherwise.
But on this occasion, I feel he acted in jest and didnt think it through. Dont brood on it, mate, I know what brooding can do to you, trust me, its no good. Put it behind you.