You are another one, who trying to turn somethings that is a minor factor in the equation, into equality as something major.
Unfortunately, the majority of the population believe that SS community is greatly disadvantaged.
That's why, even the use of labelling as SSM is deceptive.
I'm challenging the SS community to place an ad. explaining to the public what they are missing out on.
The only proviso is that they admit that the benefits and rights are on par with defactos