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elanb...

Thanks for the comments...sincerely...you obviously understand the value of paying it forward and the sense of satisfaction ones takes from such an act.

I suspect some have no idea of such a concept?

Ultruism can be difficult however when one is continually attacked by less than genuine types, clearly pushing a well worn agenda, while others posters simply look on...not prepared to step in. Perhaps understandably?

You are right however, I feel more satisfaction when I share a good runner than I do when I keep them to myself...but feel conversely disappointed when they go the wrong way, so it can be a two edge sword.

The most sickening part of the whole process is the fact these "stalkers" seem to go unchecked...can say what they like, without the need to offer the slightest semblance of supporting argument, other than grubby self-interest based mud throwing.

Stalking is stalking...matters not where or via what format, but like all criminals they do what they do without sense of remorse...and on HC it appears, without fear of retribution.

I am sure most of them have multi-nics...but sadly I fear most will never be found out!

In such an environment, I feel posting detailed assessments of potential future runners is akin helicopter drops of food aid into regions like Rewanda...likely not to go where it was intended and ending up in the hands of grubby criminals.

If there was a way HC would allow us to block others from seeing our posts (reverse ignore), the entire cycle of abuse would be instantly dealt a severe blow...if one did not want to be prevented from seeing another's post, he/she would not be able to abuse them for fear of a reverse ignore imposed on them!

Simple!

My biggest fear...always...is of those kicking me in the head being able benefit from my stock comments. This is the single biggest thing that upsets me...and the very thing currently preventing me from posting detailed assessments!

Cheers!