"If you want to twist and turn the bible to understand that you will be living here, what can I say, if it tickles your fancy, go for it, I know what I would prefer."
That statement really tickled me but not sure that the tickle spot was my fancy.
Some just fall head over whats-it into the the spiderweb of delusional power hungry control freaks and then make no decisions for themselves on many important issues that affect their well being.
For many it is like being caught in an effective spiderweb; the more they struggle the tighter they are bound. In the end it is just more comfortable for them to stop struggling and accept their entrapment - for their peace of mind they accept that the spiderweb in which they find themselves is the best for them.
Only they can free themselves from the spiderweb; the best we can do is to offer support and love to them - but it can be done; many have.
