nice fight but it misses the point, page-4

Give up the fight, Goblin.

TheWord can't help focusing on the negative
aspects of AZL, never on its positive aspects.

Blindy Freddy (but not TheWord) knows that
the human mind is incapable of objectivity.

The human mind can't help expanding what it
focuses on - and it can't help ignoring
what it's not focused on.

Many marriages come to grief in this way.

A husband or wife who becomes obsessed
with chainging this or that negative aspect
of their spouse is often so focused on that
asepct (of their spouse) they are unaware
of their good aspects and want a divorce.

Then they repeat the same mistake with
Spouses Number 2, 3 and 4 with the
same sad but predicable result -
pain, misery and conflict.

Misery merchants abounded
in my youth long before
I encountered TheWord.

I learned to take them
with a grain of salt.

Here's what they sounded like:



When all else fails...



... try group therapy.