re: daver- miles again avoids the issue.
Now you're doing it....:)
"Yak that side has no idea of how others think, so they keep repeating the solutions which would work for them as though they would work for others
That's my point...what solutions????
Stop what your doing is no solution..it aint a plan.
A good example. Basic child management strategy that often fails.
Johhny is doing something Mom doesnt like. Mom says "Stop eating like that".
Johnny continues. Mom..."Stop eating like that" (maybe louder)
.......and endlessly it goes till either mom gets so pissed off she starts to yell or she learns to ignore it.
Alternative.
At the time you ask the boy to stop doing something one way...ensure you tell him the acceptable manner to act and then reward him with praise or affection.
Works every time.
My point is of course...what's the rabble's alternative?
I may not agree with it but damn, it'd be good to at least hear what it is????
