Exactly my advice from day one, nothing good can accrue from doing anything but wait until the latest possible best bid, or as you colourfully call it see "the whites of their eyes", maybe an apt discription K.
I assume most it not all have your paper offer book sitting handy. Near 100 pages, we humans sure complicate stuff hey. Anyway with or without a glass of red 13.2 is worth a re-read in its entirety, then reflect on what some have said about the indelability (yep its a word) of the offer.
