baron, you said "I am 36 now so getting on a bit but will be trying for kids very soon."
Well, add that to the fact that you live next to your parents and owe them a lot (according to a past thread), that explains everything you've been saying.
If only life were simple!
Mine is a complicated story, but suffice to say that in a "fault divorce", If I'd timed it right, I could have been a happy and rich divorcee! Yet I disagree with your views.
