get rid of no fault divorce, page-87

Okay now that trading is out of the way here is something from the Baron's life. But it is just between us okay. And might explain why I am sick of people saying things got tough. Or it is natural you all change and grow apart etc. That wasn’t a shot at anyone. BTW there are exceptions as I said i.e. abuse.

I met my wife when we were 22 at Uni. As I posted earlier we have been together ever since. Now for the record we were engaged in 6 weeks and she asked me. Note that was the second offer I had the first was in 4 weeks of dating. Funny I am a big fella but not pretty by any means.

European peasant stock you see we are built to last unfortunately the design model didn’t include handsome…LOL. My wife though is gorgeous a true 10/10 no jokes. I will drop that to 9/10 but I am insulting her by doing so. Believe me she had a plethora of suitors until I scared them off.

That last bit was no joke I really did hehehe. She is a country girl from a very wealthy family so they were all lawyers etc easy to put the fear of God in so to speak you just tell them hell is waiting…LOL. Alls fair in love and war and all that. Now the reason I think people don't try hard enough is as follows.

My wife fell very ill when we were still engaged. So ill in fact she became very depressed. Now if you know anything about depression once it starts it becomes horrific. Now they gave her medication etc but she was getting worse. She was becoming increasing violent and abusive.

Now I could have walked away but I didn't I married her. About a year in the conclusion everyone reached including her folks (they are lucky they are still breathing hehehe) was that putting her into hospital was the best solution. Now I know what happens in there they turn you into a human guinea pig.

I objected they all thought it was a good idea. I decided the fear of God was need again and I won hehehe. Now I went from full time work to part time. Very hard to make ends meet but I did. In fact at first I left work completely for 6 months so I could look after her.

Now she is built for beauty unlike me but the amount of punishment I took was staggering. She can throw a punch like no ones business. Good thing is I heal fast hehehe. Anyway this lasted about two years, but you see it wasn't her. On better days you could see she was there still.

To cut a very long post short in the end she recovered. I healed and we still spend 100% of our time together. Now if I had of as virtually everyone does today just walked away because it was too hard I would have missed the best thing in my life. People just don't care anymore and they miss out.

BTW I moved in next door to the folks as a poster pointed out. Mainly as they are getting on a bit so easy to look after them later, they are still strong yet. Now just wait till someone posts a thread on old age care…LOL. For the record kids should take their folks in, in old age, but I'm saving that one hehehe.