"After a long marriage she was my only real love after my "real" ex..."
Sorry macrae, I thought you meant a girlfriend mate. Please ignore my earlier jokes. What I said in my last post was true though. If I had of let my ex girlfriend near my soon to be wife she would have tried to kill her.
Good luck mate I am very sad to hear this. Luckily my one and only real love is still with me. Hence getting rid of an ex girlfriend is a little easier as I can understand the attachment you must have.
Still a clean break I think is best mate and good luck with it.