macca, sadly when a break up occurs someone is ready to move on and someone is usually still in shellshock. That doesn't make one a goodie and one a badie but the latter of the two may need some time to adjust. people often don't act themselves during a break up. try to be understanding of this fact. don't get emotionally involved...or at least don't show it. stay calm and pleasant yet distant when dealing with her......imagine you are a shop assistant and she is a customer....that sort of pleasant but distant. Everyone will be better off this way. trust me.
