G'day moly
Many of us have been in your position, it's really hard. There's much that can be said but for now I just say, don't let whats happening ruin your life/marriage. In my opinion I think you should draw a line now and leave whats happened in the past. Decide what you are going to do now, wether thats in or out of the market. Tell your wife the truth. Look forward not back and good luck
cheers
Rod
