I can only repeat that my off the cuff comments are not personal or aimed at anyone. They are simply comments on issues as they arise without any expectation of a response. Some may find them amusing or useful, challenging, obnoxious or plain boring....It matters not. It has nothing to do with 'fitting in' or not fitting in, nothing to do with being the odd man out, children who don't happen to fit in, or sit on their own...just casual comments on issues whenever I feel like making a comment, if that concerns you in some way. Which given your apparent concern, it appears to do, don't worry about it.
If you feel that it's a waste of time engaging, the solution is simple: don't do it. If you engage, don't complain about wasting your own time.
