Explain exactly why you were unable to say exactly that, rather than allude to someone else's misfortune.
Taurisk went to the effort of explaining, in detail, her circumstances. She didn't need to do that, but she decided to do so.
And after all her effort, you, instead of acknowledging HER PAIN, drop in a Red Herring by mentioning someone else!!!!
Your come back post was very much worse than your original post. You should know that, surely????
You certainly needed to apologise when the upset you caused was ALL YOUR DOING.
