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10/02/20
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Originally posted by Parsifal:
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possibly the well honed skills. And he mostly kept it up apart from the odd slip up for two years. The other stuff I just thought was me getting to understand someone. Almost dead on the two year mark it changed in some way until I really did lose myself. Though my kids did not like him and nor did my friends or family. He said some weird things that should have made me run a mile though. Like his dislike of kids was intense. He was argumentative with my friends. He was always a know all and he promised much...... And more. But every time I started to wonder he’d switch and I thought I’d maybe misunderstood something. it’s a fascinating lesson in a type of person I had never met before. In my less maudlin moments there is a lot of interesting stuff about the whole experience. I am still not sure I completely understand the psychological process or the way he operated. I believe that’s normal as well I am also acutely aware that his reality is different from mine. But on the other hand I am also aware that my reality appears to align with that if others who met him anyway c’est la vie. Tomorrow is a new day and I’m spending it with physical entities in the form of friends.
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People like that it comes rather natural, bit like narcissistic syndrome they don't even realise there behaviour and they initially come across as just supper confident and you don't quite get it until you realise every thing they do is about satisfying their own wants and needs. Yes tomorrow is another day and if I wake up, it will be a bloody good start to the day