Go to a men's group. Center Link did have one. I was the only married guy there. One night a week for so many weeks. I realy don't know what happen to me, but I came a way a lot better off.
I am there 100% for my daughter. My wife ?%
But she is the mother of my daughter.
Two Wolves
One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside people. He said, "My son, the battle is between the two "wolves" inside us all.
One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.
The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith."
The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: "Which wolf wins?"
The old Cherokee simply replied, "The one you feed."
Encore it does get better, but it's up to you.
This saying has helped me alot. " It doesn't matter what happens to you, it's how you handle it that important."
It might be the woman's fault, it might be the man fault. But it's never the child's fault, for sadly they do not have a say.
Make the best of your life, you only get one, don't waste it.
