Sorry Goldie, i meant to infer that it only takes one to create a problem. Many a time the one who refuses to see their impact blames the other. And the other puts up with it untill he/she explode with anger to which the response.... "where did that come from".
Anyway as i said there is good and bad on both sides and often BOTH parners have failing. Which then raises the singular concern of the Family Court "what do we do for the innocent childern"..... Guess it's "know your future partner well..and just not the bonking side of things"
