if every male here , every one reading this,was born in say, Saudi Arabia, then we would all see it as perfectly normal for girls to denied the most basic human rights. Because of our upbringing and culture , we wouldn't bat an eyelid at 'honour' killings, marrying 12 year olds off to old men etc etc etc.
The crafty have always worked most cleverly at ensuring that their own' wants' merge nicely with the religion of the day....