On the subject of heroics, Ya Never know til yer in the situation which way you'll go.
On the subject of being a victim... Bollox... Sure if yer not used to violence it's gonna be a lttle shaky, but you aint no victim.
MadMacs, on the subject of your mum, Unfortunately I know EXACTLY what you mean... Still not really over that one, but I think I have made up for my youthful fear and sounds like you have too.
