hi @wafflehead - I need to get my head around this new concept first and I also realise how little i know. I wish I knew a really good psychiatrist who is also a general medic - as a friend - like you can't walk into someone's surgery, pretending to have a problem and then get him to spill the beans on all sorts of subjects - only friends do that. I used to have a circle of friends like that in the country . . . . miss them now. anyway, it's just an idea - seeking for some other explanation for something I do not understand at all, when people around me claim to know all, but on the 'believe' basis. thanks Taurisk
