not sure if you will get to read this carringbush seeing as the wife has called you away from the computer, i have luckily avoided this curse so far, in my family, personally and my friends, until last night.
went to a mates house for a beer last night, found out another one of my mates is staying there due to domestic problems, not sure if divorce is on the cards but really made me worried as i consider both parties good friends.
anyway, congratulations on your relationship, always a couple of down times but the good more than makes up for it.
