are we at risk of sexual deviancy normalisation?, page-172

Just saying it would depend on the job for that lunch room and even then, there is a great differential between job position choice and such things...perhaps the post office lineup might be closer but still lacking due to the wider complications of people who compromise that approx 1/3rd.

Also you said enjoy....just because people partake in such things does not mandate an enjoyment (as others might know it) as a result due to the complicated aspects of all such behaviours and personality.

Hard to talk straight around such things though because of the highly protected nature of such behaviours by their wider in-group..and the group has little in the way of a conscience existing for this is the glue that binds the individuals of the group together.

Each to their own I say but don't shove such things down people's throats is the go.