Dddz You are kidding aren't you? This is all a big wind up obviously, the only other possible alternative is that you are so pussywhipped that you are a "self hating man".
"Man provides a seed. Woman does all the work. She carries a child in her womb for nine months and gives birth, both a heavy burden. She feeds child from her breast and works very hard. " And who exactly provides for mother and child?Food, shelter, clothing, medicine, civilization,all created by men for women and children. Everything you see around you was created by men.Does that make them better? No, it's in our nature, but a little "acceptance" of that would be nice instead of continual whinging.
"A man MUST learn to be RECEPTIVE to a woman's needs."
How about we transpose man and woman, so we then have "A woman MUST learn to be RECEPTIVE to a man's needs" . Interesting idea (but it will never happen). Seriously straight out of the 50's.
"When as a man you see clearly, you will see a woman's needs are far greater than yours. "
Let's transpose man and woman again, on second thoughts let's not, too silly.
"If you are getting shafted, you are not "good".
If you are getting shafted, you lack relationship skills.
Having relationship skills is what is "good".
As I suggested, best to get some serious counselling; do some serious workshops. "
Interesting concept above, I wonder how it fits with if you get bashed you lack bashing skills, if you get cheated then your cheating skills are not up to scratch, if you get raped then obviously your anti raping skills need more work(so it's still your fault). Do you really believe this?
As for counselling, perhaps yes, but only with a male counsellor who really understands women and how they work, what makes them tick, so that one can avoid becoming emotional mincemeat or a financial slave to a toxic woman, and also how to spot good women and avoid the harpies.
My advise to you, free of charge, is to man up, stop sucking up to women, they probably despise you for it anyway, find your own maleness, accept it and be happy with it, know that there are many things women will never understand due to testosterone deficiency and that's OK,respect women, but only if they respect you, get over your father, he may have had a rotten mother, if we are getting esoteric re Shakti, remember you are Yang to womens Yin and it pays to not get confused about that.
