I am hoping the STT forum will offer some insights into a dilemma I am pondering - please be honest (I can handle it)
Mrs V and I always celebrated our anniversary as it was our one unique special day.
Since moving to Ken Berra we have found a wonderful place by the lake for our celebrations - as an aside it is next to the Pallaltive Care facility Mrs V was in for the last 8 weeks - and on her final birthday they even allowed me to take away. Lastly we also had her ceremony there.
Our anniversary is soon - would it be perverse for me to go there on that occasion to celebrate our life together?
