aaah you’ve adopted nippys definition. Men and women seek partners for various reasons. Men too will make subconscious choices. That some of these result in abusive relationships is NOT the responsibility of the person who is abused. It’s the responsibility of the person who abuses
your post tells me how shallow your concern about family violence is, and how poor your understanding. You have successfully provided any perpetrator with an excuse
its very easy to look back at red flags and see what they meant but if you have not encountered that sort of person before it is impossible to understand or know what they will become
