Guys that have been through the P C
thing
are generally the first to put their hand up to help others
lets say ease the way, as much as possible
because when your first told it could be C
your mind goes of the rails
and when you speak with others...hey its not so bad but of course not so good either
and then PC has a help line with ... I think they are RN's, the ladies, that know every thing on a 1300 number, free its national
and their aim is... we are here to help