I think that you will find that there is an some form of repetition to every aspect of your life as there is to mine. You are a rare breed of person if you have found a way to eliminate this.
If you find a way to stop the world rotating, I would guess you will also find that this repetition aspect to life will also stop (along with all life as we know it unfortunately).
Life is not really repeating itself, it just seems to be so.
Most people and animals usually apply some derivative of rules and solutions that they have found to have worked to some extent in the past in somewhat similar circumstances. It is generally called learning.
That learning characteristic of life tends to ensure the repetition aspect to life that you seem to deplore for some reason.
Of course because there are generally differences bewteen situations, rules and solutions chosen generally need to be modified to some extent as they are implimented.
Negotiations and diplomacy is almost always the first step in resolution of any disagreement. However, this negotiation can often continue forever and have no result.
In most circumstances, military action is used when negotiations have been exhausted, although of course there are obviously exception to this in some cases where there may be another strategy over-riding that of conflict resolution.
