The only dictators are the ones who try and pull down thousands of years of history and stability that is the institution of marriage between a man and a woman.
No it's not perfect but it is the best way to raise a family.
I've already said that as far as I'm concerned gay, bi, straight whatever can live as consenting adults in any relationship their choose.
But marriage is a religous and state sanctioned union of 1 man and 1 woman to the exclusion of all others.
That will never change for me regardless of what the social engineers try and do.