My situation is similar to that Dino, but very complicted. Unfaithfullness happened, but it came fronm a second hand source, but I fully belive the source, as it has happened before, so I don't feel complicit in the affair. Little children are at risk if something was said. I believe my friend loves her husband [the adulterer] very much, and I believe, despite his indescretion, he loves her too. I don't want to be responsible for breaking up a family, and the damage that knowledge would do to the kids. I know what it feels like as an adult to find out such things.
