I do try! And best wishes to you aswel. Im a young parent in having 3 kids by 28, and you would be surprised at some of the looks i get picking up Josh from school in a "well to do" area where the norm is to have kids much later in life. You should have seen the swing in attitude when they found out i was the coach for the Auskick team for their sons, and that through standard paperwork (as i dont really tell people Josh isnt mine in real life) that i had taken that role on as not a "real father" as someone so nicely put it!
