This week on Money and Investing, Mitch Olarenshaw and I discuss how money affects relationships, sharing real stories and practical advice for couples working towards a shared financial future.
1. Spender vs Saver
Understanding your partner’s money habits is essential. Whether you’re naturally a saver or more inclined to spend, working together requires openness and mutual respect.
2. Set Clear Expectations Early
From splitting bills to long-term plans, having upfront conversations avoids issues later. Agreeing on basic standards early helps build trust and structure.
3. Have the Hard Conversations
It’s tempting to avoid topics like debt, budgeting or big expenses, but those chats are necessary. Addressing things early keeps you both aligned and reduces long-term friction.
When your goals shift from “me” to “we,” everything changes. Discuss what your next three or five years look like together so your choices today support that future.
5. Balance Contributions and Respect All Roles
Money isn’t the only form of contribution. Whether it’s income, parenting, or managing the home, it’s all part of building a strong household. Recognise and respect each role.
6. Maintain Financial Independence
Even when pooling finances, having personal spending freedom is important. Neither partner should feel they need permission to make reasonable purchases.
7. Discuss Risk Tolerance
You might have different views on debt or investing. Understanding how each of you feels about financial risk helps you find a balanced approach that works for both.
8. Work as a Team
Strong relationships operate like a team. When one person is under pressure, the other steps up. This support keeps things moving and prevents burnout.
9. Avoid the Lone Wolf Mindset
Letting go of total control can be tough, especially if you’re used to managing finances solo. But bringing your partner into your plans builds trust and deeper connection.
10. Invest in Your Relationship
Divorce is one of the biggest destroyers of wealth. A strong partnership—with open communication and shared goals—is a key part of long-term financial stability.
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