anyway. enough of the Dalai Lama's Tibetan baloney, which is not 'Buddhism' & simply teachings from a feudal society that oppressed & enslaved [and even sexually exploited] its common folk
the Enlightenment Buddha himself taught about sexual conduct, as follows:
Abandoning sensual misconduct, he abstains from sensual misconduct. He does not get sexually involved with those who are protected by their mothers, their fathers, their brothers, their sisters, their relatives or their religion; those with husbands, those who will entail punishments [i.e. protected by law, such as under the age of consent or without proper will, such as mentally disabled] or even those crowned with flowers by another [enganged] man.