so, if your father (real) banned you from crossing the road, cause you might get hit, banned you from driving a car, cause you might have an accident, banned you from going out of the house, because you might get a disease, banned you from using the internet because you might come across a bully, banned you from eating anything except a strick health diet.
banned you from doing anything that could cause you any harm,
would you still love him, or resent him even more.