i think you misunderstood what i was trying to say,
i certainly don't think you failed any of your children and i certainly don't believe any child is more valuable than another,
taughtbuffet,
I think that we may have been caught in the cross-fire. My apologies for coming across in this way.
My comments were directed to those who either think that their children chosing:
Chritianity is a complete disaster
or
atheism is a complete disaster
I would say that if children had no real choice in the matter, but were lead one way or another by irrational indoctrination then it would be a disaster.