If you're not a troll, you are certainly a muppet.... I've lowered myself to your level by playing the man instead of the ball.
You are implying that these women and children need to take responsibility for their own actions? "Call me old fashioned"? I suppose that's the kind of old fashioned that told abuse victims to shut up and get over it?
I'm under no illusions about the reality of the world, I realise that means to an end can sometimes be harsh, but turning a blind eye to the alleged abuse of women and children should never be that means.