Think you need to follow the thread a bit more closely there old mate .
Joe said that he objects to people telling kids that it is ok that they are gay .
" What I object to is trying to make it the norm for such a behaviour and telling kid's it is ok to grow up this way. "
So , I asked him what he would say to his own kid if he ( or she ) turned out to be gay . Would he say " No , you're not normal " ?
Would he tell his kid that he ( or she ) is an aberration ?