A few suggestions for you rjkj -
Salvation Army
Smith Family
Red Cross
World Vision
Your nearest Early Intervention Education Centre - for autistic kids -(they REALLY need a helping hand)
Meals on Wheels
DO a good turn for your nearest elderly couple
Go mow someone's lawn - do their shopping.
An investment of your time any of these very worthwhile "stocks" would really pay off downtrack.
And take your mind off yourself!! (And us!!)